Know yourself

Hi it was nice reading it but do you think its practical. I use to think that I cant live with an hour for myself in a day but that doesn't happen now. then I use to think I will have peace full life with my husband even that doesn't happen. I don't find good friends. I am not happy with my in laws my parents. BUT off late I have realised one thing to every thing I talked about centre is me. so the problem is with me...if I change myself and decide to live happy I will be happy. It happens we look for our happiness in other people, we want them to do things that make us happy. if one is not happy with husband may be he his own story to be sad and make u sad avoid it. Try finding out happiness in small things of life...my husband never liked the idea of having bhel poori at juhu beach we use to go have a walk and come back, I always use to fight with him this went on till we stopped going there. one day while coming back from office i saw the beach and thought of going alone....went here played with water...had bhel poori....felt so happy and grounded independent of finding the happiness all by myself... came back and never told about it to my husband ( or he would say u will have bad stomachs u wont be able to go to office u are mad etc will make me feel guilty of going alone). that taught me the lesson of finding happiness in small things of life...GO FOR IT AS LONG AS UR HAPPINESS IS NOT HARMING ANYONE AND YOU THINK IT IS RIGHT DO IT BEFORE YOU REGRET IT.

sonal

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I agree totally. they say you cannot love others if you dont love yourself. After marriage, children, in-laws, work pressures, there is a need to get to know the real you who is lost in a maze of relationships. Doing something for onesoneself gives immense satisfaction and happiness. And only when you are happy can you take care of your loved ones. i really like the thought, as long as it is not harming anyone, you have all the rights to be happy and stay happy.
Name : nima

I really like the thought,what u have told.I got inspiration from your article.Ilearned something new what i want.i appreciate your idea.Thankyou.
Name : Monabhargavi bai

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