Divorced from life?

The only thing which I would like to add to this article is for the parents... they should not make the child feel as if divorce is something wrong....everybody makes a mistake, this is one of those mistakes only, which can come to an end. Not only parents but everyone should help them come out of it...not by reminding them of what happened, as normally people do saying "I know you must be going through a tough phase, I am here in your tough times...etc" Don't do that. Don't remind them of what happened....instead buy a movie ticket, surprise her and go somewhere with her, take her for shopping or best is to make her meet someone who has gone through the same phase, and has come out even stronger.....you trust people if you can relate to them. My father is a lawyer, that too a divorce specialist... he normally tries his level best to work out a compromise, but if it doesn't work out, he asks the concerned person to leave the past memories of the person in his office...makes the girl (who is normally in a bad state emotionally) feel that it is not worth it. With God's grace we are educated, have family or friends to support us...I have seen a Sikh woman with a 7months old girl child, uneducated, no family support, no financial support...but still "bindaas" to tell the judge that she will prefer to clean utensils rather then allowing her husband to play with her self respect! Nothing is permanent with you except your nature, your attitude towards life...live with it. They will not leave you unless you leave them...they will help you to come out of any disaster. Live life.

sonal

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Yep!! that's true sonal, either live with your self respect or people will make hell out of it. so better who cares attitude is the best live with your self respect and go with your life ahead life is to grow not to cry for one person who mess up your life.

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