Love his flaws.

My guy is very very stubborn, in the sense, he will find my mistake in each and every argument we might have. Then I would be the one to say sorry and apologise. My smallest remark sparks his ire! But still I love him completely and will never think of leaving or anybody better than him!

Nithya

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Dear Swati, I agree strongly with you and really liked your suggestion

Name :Yesha

I feel very strongly about crime against women.Not only domestic violence, a woman is not safe anywhere , anytime, any age !! Daily so many haples ones get raped, even minors and so many are forced into the world''s oldest profession. Isnt there a way out of this?? Why is it that a woman out at some odd time has to get raped?? Why do men look at women this way?? Cant they see us as fellow human beings. It is such a shame. Prostitution is widely accepted in any country as a ''need''!!

Name :ambika

I agree with Nithya. My man also is stubborn and demanding. I can never ever think of anyone else in his place.

Name : Raji

 i''m going through the same. my husband is very caring and loving.so i try to overlook his flaw--

Name : sandhya

Agree, Swati!Love, definitely is the most powerful word and expression that we human beings can share across all age groups/genders/community/religion/economic status and so on. It is  the only earthly wonder which will bring happiness,wealth,health,longevity and laughter into everyone's life. Love will be sacred and heavenly only if expressed between individuals in the form of respect, timely help and understanding. One should love a person for what he or she is, irrespective of any materialistic gains that come by. Love will take people a long way and comfort them when exhibited at times of ill health, dis-stress,loss such as some loved ones death. As they say, Love cannot be bought by money....it has to come from within for the fellow beings around. Love can only bond relationships and make them more stronger. A word or gesture with lots of love to your beloved ones as often you can, if not everyday will make them feel loved and happy. Am sure, Swati even the readers of sitagita will agree with us, when we say "the only investment in life which brings back high value and long term returns is LOVE!"

Name : Priya Raghavan

 M y husband mean and cruel to me,but to other ladies he is nice.he has physically and mentally abused me,he hit me on the head with toy truck very hard.he has no emotion for me.I want to tell that husband is mean evil spirit thing.

Name : sushma

I was travelling in a local bus last evening and I realized something which I would like to share with you all...though it is about one city but everyone can do it in their own way... its about the city Bombay (Mumbai). I shifted here 5yrs.ago. Initially I was reluctant about accepting the city, always cribbing about the traffic, distances, long working hour culture, noise, weather...etc. but slowly I realized its only here that on high traffic road a gentleman/women will stop his/her car to let a old lady pass....once I saw a car suddenly stop in the middle of the road, and a lady rushes out to help a blind man standing on the side of the road....an auto driver stopping the traffic on a green signal because an old lady was in the middle of the zebra crossing when the light turned red....a traffic police-wala pushing my car when it stopped in the middle of the road. Traffic police working hard to control traffic in bad rains and then scorching sun. A sixty year old woman offering her seat to another older woman in the bus. This is the city where if you see a person while shopping, the next time they see you, they smile.... you can trust an auto-wala for the price he is asking or if he says this is a shorter way, though he will flies! A place safe enough to let your girls be free birds without the fear of evils around (though it happens at times but not as bad as other cities) there are short comings in all the places you shift to, we have a judge mental mind when going to new places...but slowly you adopt the city/ person the way it is and then you see the better side of it....and slowly you start loving it, enjoying it. Then I got married to this guy who was new in the town...was all the time cribbing about the shortcomings, but I knew, let a few years pass..... now he agrees to what I used to say when he used to crib. CHANGE IS THE ONLY CONSTANT THING THAT HAPPENS. LEARN TO ADOPT IT.

Name : SONAL

Women can't handle bad in laws and demanding husband because they are emotionally attached to them. They are brought up with a strong notion that it's important to respect in laws and husband how so ever they behave...no one is taught by their mothers to deal with in laws or husband. but I am sure the coming generation will not face many problems because they(even sons) have seen their mothers suffering....and notion of respecting everyone has changed...I don't say don't respect but see how they are behaving with you...DONT GIVE SHIT BUT DONT TAKE SHIT ALSO. THIS IS WHAT THE KIDS ARE GROWING UP WITH.

Name : SONAL

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