Womens Thoughts

If a husband & wife should live this relationship like an intimate friend, young lovers of each other for a happy cheerful life throwing away signs of ageing or the ones who boss each other which, in your opinion, will prove a lovable successful married life with zero ageing signs ?

Life with fun mauj masti and zero hatred is every individual ' s demand so why is ' nt the supply? The mantra for great marriages for ages is just one -be an intimate close friend to one another, lover of your spouse (this goes for both). Be a part of each others life, don't keep him/her away, see that nothing divides you and you remain one, not two!

Why do we want to suppress the other, in our relationships? why can't be free but plz that doesn't mean you hang around with other xyz. When one partner to other says be like this or that way this is always misunderstood as for taking away the identity but it's to improve it for the best. if u love one u can't see him/her be hurt by others for what is not right in your spouse.

If you love your darling wife/hubby can you hurt or let him be hurt? Or his/her heart broken by anyone ? what's the answer YES or NO? love ka matlab hai ki apne jivan saathi ko itna chahain ki ruhki hawayein bhi usse chuke na gujar ne payen. agar apne saathi ko dard hote dekh hum pur koi asar nahi hota ya uski takhleef se khud ka dil dard mehsoos nahi karta to woh pyar kaise ho sakta hai. Iska arth hai ki rishte mein abhi bhi bahut khali jagah hai jahan ehsaas ki kami rah gai hai. Pati patni aksar ek dusare ki khushiyon ko dabane (suppress) mein hi lage rahte hain . Samne wale ko kiss taraha kuchla jaye yahi judojahad (koshish) lagi rahti hai. Jiss tarah apne dost ya premi/premika (agar rahi ho ya na bhi ho) ke liye ji jaan se jaan chidak te nazar aate hain ki unki uff bhi nikli bus apni hatheli pur liye ghum rahe hain ussi tarah iss rishte mein kyon ye mumkin nahi. isse to zindagi bhar nibhana hai tab to aur love & care se nurture karna chahiye.

Is me galti kissi ek ki nahi hain. many a times this happens that if one is of this opinion the other will try to show I am of serious kind, be in your limits, this is a foolish idea to behave like this . how can one be so pooo-lite, kind, gentle polished to the other, this will be artificial, just like begging, the other will start to rule, arre jyada sir chad jayega, dimag satwein aasman mein udane lage ga, why is it so? all politeness, mannerism, sound behaviour, humanity is made for the outer world not meant for the world which comes in 1st PLACE then the rest. this is that world in which if u r happy, cheerful successful u r in best shape then, to face the entire outside this rule goes for both the genders.

Why do we make a hell of such a heavenly relationship ? we say friends is what we choose & r not imposed so is the best relation becoz is not born of same blood I say then why can't husband & wife not born of same blood who r said to spend births 2gether can't live happily thereafter? who share special bond ,cute gifts-- - - - their sweet children, all this is lifetime achivement still is filled with bitterness. why? be like a true friend , lover , U will see that the ship of ur relationship will always sail smoothly in sea of ur life .

Fill up ur life with the stuffing of melting emotions, heart & soulfull love,

Honey of honesty, Cream of smooth,polite,gentle behaviour,Sugared voice

always free of diabeties,Mix in ur sensous touch to soothe the nerves,

Top it with cute million dollar smile & cheeries of care.

Now it's ready to go on a trip for ----------------

LIVE - LONG - LOVE - LIFE .

Now it's the viewers turn to move their finger chips on keys and pour out their definition of termnology about marriage. many wud say how can it all goody-2 i say why can't it be . it's for those also who say positivity is key of life. look up to this rishta not as a mountain mammoth but as sweet as honey with nothing impossible. plz feel free to reply open hearted u will not be sentenced to punishment but be sure before u write for what u write.

Name: Shivangi Puneet

Emailid: bluebud@sify.com

Your Comments

I also believe time has been changed. You have to speak for your self. First of all you have to win trust of your hubby and you can take from there. Also you need patience; you want to change any tradition of the house just after few days it is not going to happen. It takes time. But you have to be firm in your opinion. At some extend I do agree they wants you to forget everything about your parents and only remember their family after the marriage but hey I don't believe in that and I spoke up. I am sure they didn't like it but….Yes sometimes you have to let it go but not every time…. Being in US I can say this but I know it is not easy in India. But keep trying!!!

Name :Newyork121

Shivangi how true you are. If it happens both wyas trust me nothing can stop a marriage from being a success. Wife can stand by her husband in all kind of troubles, financial, emotional, anything but husband...he has to understand if he left her somewhere, she will be too paranoid in her heart of hearts, he has given her a shock she shivers with dread every night she sleeps, BUT she has started trusting him once again, she does`nt recquire a counselling session to tell her how to love her husband or trust him. It should be first priority of the couple to not keep on mistrusting eachother. agree to what your wife asks you, be convinced by her, she will do anything for you & its not her weakness, but her love. let husbands let their wives feel they are their for them, live with them.

Name :xyz

Relationship between husband and wife First of all I would like to thanks Ms. Shivangi for raising such a meaningful topic. Yes I do agree with your views regarding the relationship between husband and wife. Really its such a beautiful relationship joining two strangers in such a bond that they are never strangers evermore sharing each other’s joys, disappointment, thick and thin, and in short all the emotions that can be the part of human nature. They make the world of their own and if they are truly the partners their small world formed by them become the miniature of paradise with small angels smiling around. But sometimes when this relationship loses its charm many a problems occur and gradually damage the beautifully laid life without giving any notice. So, not at any cost let that charm die, revive it with your own efforts. If both are close to each other’s hearts in the true sense of the word, they provide strength for the other one. For example, if husband is facing some business problem or wife facing at work or home, only a few words of love, sympathy and encouragement in between them can do miracles. The relations which they leave behind should never be felt as if either of them is missing, both the partners should try to make each other feel contented by accepting either’s relations as its own. Lastly I would like to say that if these type of topics are raised they can be helpful to different categories, if someone having problems in this relationship they can find some type of solution, and maybe can make amendments in their relationship and those leading a satisfactory life can fill more sweetness and charm and romance and can lead their lives happily ever after.

Name :sheela virwani

very well said shivangi, but how many people are true to heart like you, there ar so many women who are not as open hearted as you are, there are so many women who are not as thoughtful as you are. ""plz feel free to reply open hearted u will not be sentenced to punishment but be sure before u write for what u write"" Which punnishment is being referred here I wonder? I guess if people don`t build their lives at the expense of lives of their kins & at the cost their happiness costs to other senior members of the family who have responsibility of elders & are anwerable to society will I guess let the relationships strive. & ofcourse in Indian Hindu society a "Bahu" is not only for her own ''material needs'' which some girls use to driv out of influencing men , but somebody who is looked up to & is a icon of family, who has responsibility & love for elders & love & compassion for children, not somebody who when even leaves the man takes even smallest piece of equipment of the house with her, leave alone furnitures too. yes Live-Long-Love-Life But let others live too. Khhoon Pasina lagta hai asiana banane mein-gharonde sirf baaton se aur doosron ko fasane se nahin bante-rishte nibhai jaite hain - sacrifice kia jaate hain-lekin tareeke se.

Name :xyz

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