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Hi Manu i am sorry but i disagree with u partially. i agree to what all you said regarding the unreasonable expectations unfair ways unwanted pressure of work and distingushing between son an daughter in law. but i dont agree of the idea of leaving them. what you said of talking to your husband before marrige about living seperately if one can dare to ask that why dont to ask for a little privacy and overexpectaion avoidation. say we will live together but everyone will be inlimits i will take care but i dont want them to interfere in all my matters. see we just have few relations where we dont have to formal we indians are not the type who celebrate mothers day by spending a day with your mom for us every day is a mothers day because we live with them. it not so formal. imagine leaving your six month child with a maid for the full day. what ever mother inlaw will obviusly take better care of your child though she does that because the baby is of her son, wnat ever you think your son is safer in her hands let it be. same way if your MIL falls sick u will obviusly take better care of her then a paid nurse.... though it sounds rude but its mutual and selfish both. if u go at the core of any relationship its all very selfish.its all about give and take. the core reason to have kids is that only first to have sex and then when they grow up they take care of you old and dependent guys. but our culture has presented all this with a beautifull cover of "trend". we dont think till the core and just do things because this is how it is to be done. so the stess should be on mental freedom rather then avioding the physical pressence. dont hide face it win it on your term and condition.dont run away from your resposibilites but dont leave your freedom to do that.

Name : sonal

Email : sonalkul@yahoo.com

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