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Rules for an impressive first impression

The job interview is the most important aspect of your search for a new career opportunity. The way you interview will determine whether or not you get a job offer. From the moment you walk in, the employer will begin evaluating you on a variety of levels including your appearance, your personality, and the way you express yourself. If you are prepared, you’ll project a positive, professional image that will give you a big advantage over the competition.

  1. Tardiness taboo    Did you oversleep on your big day? Did you miss the bus? Did you spend a few precious minutes trying to locate the office? Is that the reason why you are late and so out of breath on your most important day? You have already sealed your fate by committing one of the worst sins    arriving late. One of the primary, basic fundamentals of good corporate etiquette is    Never be late. Try to get to your interview at least 10-15 minutes early. This will give you time to relax, orient yourself with the surroundings and settle down.

  2. Smile    You are a bundle of nerves but they don’t have to know it, do they? The minute you step into the room, take a deep breath and smile. Your smile should imply that you are feeling relaxed and confident. But don’t go overboard with a big grin. Just a friendly, affable smile will do.

  3. Body speak    Sit down when you are asked to. Say a polite "Thank you". Don’t fidget or cross your legs nervously. Sit up straight and lean forward slightly whenever you need to answer a question. Always make eye contact. Shifting or darting eyes is a sure sign of insecurity and nervousness. Keep your hands folded in your lap, don’t play with your hair. Mind your body language.

  4. Dress talks    Will a suit look good on you? Or a simple dress… prim looking skirt and stiff starched blouse, or a dash of lace and frills? A sari? What kind?
    The perfect dress for an interview is one in which you feel most comfortable. It must and should convey a professional look. No dangling earrings, or jaunty necklaces, overpowering perfume or spindly heels. You want your employer to remember you and not what you wore. Subtlety is the key.

  5. Personal grooming    You will go a long way if you learn not to offend your future employer’s eyes. If you sit there with dragon lady nails, or lipstick on your teeth, you will be left on the starting line itself. Take care to be properly groomed. Well-combed hair, clipped nails, neatly ironed clothes, immaculate make-up and polished shoes will win half the battle for you.

  6. Voice control    You not only need to learn not to offend your future employer’s eyes but also his ears. Too soft? Too low? Too harsh? Too loud? Please do find the right pitch and tone. Take the middle path. Speak clearly. Express yourself articulately.

  7. Research pays    Do your homework well. Research the company you are planning to work for. Scout around a little. You not only need to appear knowledgeable about your subject matter but also about the work the company is doing.

  8. Wit works    If humour comes naturally to you, let it flow. Wit is a winner. It may also help lift your tension and help you to behave more naturally.

  9. Lie trap    Don’t ever fall for this one. If you don’t know something, it is better to confess ignorance. Don’t attempt to give the wrong answer. Better let truth prevail.

  10. Positive attitude    You are judged within 30 seconds of walking into a room. You need to make an impact. Your appearance, your body language, your voice must all add up to total confidence and poise. Think like a winner and you will emerge as one.

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