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Rules for an impressive first impression
The job interview is the most important aspect of your search
for a new career opportunity. The way you interview will determine whether or
not you get a job offer. From the moment you walk in, the employer will begin
evaluating you on a variety of levels including your appearance, your
personality, and the way you express yourself. If you are prepared, you’ll
project a positive, professional image that will give you a big advantage over
the competition.
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Tardiness taboo Did you oversleep on
your big day? Did you miss the bus? Did you spend a few precious minutes trying
to locate the office? Is that the reason why you are late and so out of breath
on your most important day? You have already sealed your fate by committing one
of the worst sins arriving late. One of the primary, basic
fundamentals of good corporate etiquette is Never be late.
Try to get to your interview at least 10-15 minutes early. This will give you
time to relax, orient yourself with the surroundings and settle down.
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Smile You are a bundle of nerves but
they don’t have to know it, do they? The minute you step into the room, take a
deep breath and smile. Your smile should imply that you are feeling relaxed and
confident. But don’t go overboard with a big grin. Just a friendly, affable
smile will do.
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Body speak Sit down when you are
asked to. Say a polite "Thank you". Don’t fidget or cross your legs nervously.
Sit up straight and lean forward slightly whenever you need to answer a
question. Always make eye contact. Shifting or darting eyes is a sure sign of
insecurity and nervousness. Keep your hands folded in your lap, don’t play with
your hair. Mind your body language.
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Dress talks Will a suit look good on
you? Or a simple dress… prim looking skirt and stiff starched blouse, or a dash
of lace and frills? A sari? What kind?
The perfect dress for an interview is one in which you feel most comfortable.
It must and should convey a professional look. No dangling earrings, or jaunty
necklaces, overpowering perfume or spindly heels. You want your employer to
remember you and not what you wore. Subtlety is the key.
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Personal grooming You will go a long
way if you learn not to offend your future employer’s eyes. If you sit there
with dragon lady nails, or lipstick on your teeth, you will be left on the
starting line itself. Take care to be properly groomed. Well-combed hair,
clipped nails, neatly ironed clothes, immaculate make-up and polished shoes
will win half the battle for you.
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Voice control You not only need to
learn not to offend your future employer’s eyes but also his ears. Too soft?
Too low? Too harsh? Too loud? Please do find the right pitch and tone. Take the
middle path. Speak clearly. Express yourself articulately.
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Research pays Do your homework well.
Research the company you are planning to work for. Scout around a little. You
not only need to appear knowledgeable about your subject matter but also about
the work the company is doing.
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Wit works If humour comes naturally
to you, let it flow. Wit is a winner. It may also help lift your tension and
help you to behave more naturally.
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Lie trap Don’t ever fall for this
one. If you don’t know something, it is better to confess ignorance. Don’t
attempt to give the wrong answer. Better let truth prevail.
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Positive attitude You are judged
within 30 seconds of walking into a room. You need to make an impact. Your
appearance, your body language, your voice must all add up to total confidence
and poise. Think like a winner and you will emerge as one.
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