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‘No’ know how
It is a wise girl who tries
to leave all negativity out of her dealings. But unless you draw the line
somewhere, there is no way that you can take on all that is thrust in your
direction.
Know when to say no. More importantly, how to say no.
Your co-worker tends to slack a bit and the entire department
suffers. She would like you to help her out – you are sorely tempted to get the
job done. Think. Is she unwell? Over loaded, or, in anyway eligible to fall
short of her assigned work? If so …fine; but never make it habit. If not, just
say that you have plenty to do with your time and politely move away from
further persuasion.
Saying no to your superiors is
slightly more tricky – if you feel you cannot get something done, say so. Ask
for time or revised schedules. Do not refuse assignments or responsibilities
explain the reason why they cannot be handled right away.
When the hat comes round
Time comes in every office, when
the collection box goes round for a cause.
Social service or just a fun event.
Co-workers’ birthdays, transfers,
promotions, celebrations of every kind.
When this happens all the time, what do you do?
While giving is a personal gesture and depends on your mood and
purse at that moment, there are certain occasions that cannot be avoided.
Go along with your team. Contribute only what is expected. Never
try to prove that you are one up by making unnecessarily large contributions.
On the other hand, when you really are not in a position to pay
up, have the grace and honesty to admit it to the person making the collection.
Offer to make good later and may be your teammates will pitch in for the time
being.
Good manners are essential to a peaceful life in the office. We
all would like to work with those who are polite, tactful and compassionate,
wouldn’t we? So, brush up your office act and create harmony.
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