Said George Bernard Shaw, "A gentleman is someone who never insults someone else intentionally."

Tongue in cheek, though it may seem, it brings us to the question of what is 'etiquette'. contrary to certain people's belief that manners are a collection of rules the snobbish elite use to make everyone feel out of place, etiquette is simply a way of life. It is the way civilized people behave in company, to minimise conflict.

These are no laws. Nor rules. They are a voluntary system of behaviour. They have evolved from basic decency.

Good manners are not a sign of weakness. They indicate strength of character.

Widely and incorrectly considered a social barrier, good manners are what keep society intact.'

Courtesy: 'Sitagita speaks on Social Graces', A Rupa Sitagita Self-help book

About this course

Would you like to know what it takes to make an impact - at parties, get-togethers, meetings and dinners? Do official and formal occasions frighten you? Are you tongue-tied in the presence of strangers?

This is the course for you. The course sheds light on the apparently simple rules of good manners.simple rules we often slip -up on.

The course is designed to take you through various situations that you may encounter in all walks of life. Through simple exercises, rules and tools, you will be closer to your dream. Of standing tall amidst a mob.

In keeping with the Sitagita mission to empower the woman, this course aims at making you self-sufficient. You are your own sculptor. Hone your skills and emerge a winner.

Lesson one

The fine art of dining and hospitality

Topics

• Repondez s'il vous plait
• Wine and dine
• Round the table rites
• The Zen of playing hostess
• Cocktail culture
• Proposing toasts
• Dining out
• Tipping right

Objectives:

To equip every woman -

• To dine in formal and informal situations
• To be a perfect hostess
• To be a perfect guest